tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post141120534164843313..comments2023-04-29T08:01:59.699-04:00Comments on Ezra's Space: retreatezra'smommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17342399045659116165noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-67285109314196461842009-04-08T21:16:00.000-04:002009-04-08T21:16:00.000-04:00Count me in on the commune, too. Let me say that ...Count me in on the commune, too. <BR/><BR/>Let me say that I just don't understand doctors. I had a similar experience 2 months after B died. The doc had no idea that my baby was fullterm and that he died in labor. Why can't they get the basics right? It is infuriating.Dalenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00375594629000548739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-77968432582628403532009-04-08T18:47:00.000-04:002009-04-08T18:47:00.000-04:00We are always here, moving around in the 'real' wo...We are always here, moving around in the 'real' world around us. Here for you whenever... xxxRachaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08573991998853561283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-27388814751899656282009-04-07T01:45:00.000-04:002009-04-07T01:45:00.000-04:00Yeah like Gal said, lets make it Hawaii... I haven...Yeah like Gal said, lets make it Hawaii... I haven't been there but heard its beautiful... wouldn't it be nice even if it was just for a week?!<BR/><BR/>"Thats tough"... what a joke.<BR/><BR/>I am sorry you are so exhausted from this new life. It sux. Ezra should be here. They all should be here.<BR/><BR/>My love to you Sarah.Carly Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14586501928364642712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-7607455799868730012009-04-06T17:15:00.000-04:002009-04-06T17:15:00.000-04:00PS. Can our commune be in Hawaii?PS. Can our commune be in Hawaii?Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15515520003762525659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-88428125149946986562009-04-06T17:13:00.000-04:002009-04-06T17:13:00.000-04:00Ditto... You say it perfectly, Sarah. Love to you ...Ditto... You say it perfectly, Sarah. Love to you and David, and of course to Ezra, in this shared retreat.<BR/><BR/>(Doctors suck sometimes at reading medical records before talking...)Galhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15515520003762525659noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-39720497017545530322009-04-06T12:06:00.000-04:002009-04-06T12:06:00.000-04:00It's scary how we just get accustomed to people no...It's scary how we just get accustomed to people not getting, even those who we think should, like your doctor. It's easier to accept it though than fly into a rage every time, at least I find it that way. But it's still sad and always will be.CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-36334534405751189742009-04-06T01:46:00.000-04:002009-04-06T01:46:00.000-04:00not hidden...more like protectednot hidden...more like protectedalizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09435679393472275569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-21589787679715102102009-04-06T01:45:00.000-04:002009-04-06T01:45:00.000-04:00EZRA. EZRA. EZRA.i want to scream his name at the ...EZRA. EZRA. EZRA.<BR/>i want to scream his name at the top of my lungs in the middle of the street, along with all our babies names. our sons existed.<BR/><BR/>oh sarah, i too have been sad for so long. i don't know what it's like to not be really. i might not be crying all the time but all the time i'm thinking about how lev is gone and i don't know who the hell i am anymore.<BR/><BR/>yes, please let's all live together. today i was at a day long retreat and had such a desire for us all to be together in a healing place, hidden from the rest of the world.<BR/><BR/>love to you ezra's mommyalizahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09435679393472275569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-1659422844403936622009-04-05T23:17:00.000-04:002009-04-05T23:17:00.000-04:00I feel the same way. Most times I just don't have ...I feel the same way. Most times I just don't have the energy to bring out Collin's story, because it is just so sad- and I am tired of being sad. I don't think anyone will understand this sadness unless they have been through it themselves. <BR/><BR/>((hugs))Funsizehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04651428802167787415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-55996052953543167142009-04-05T22:42:00.000-04:002009-04-05T22:42:00.000-04:00I love the idea of a babylost village. I picture ...I love the idea of a babylost village. I picture a rustic place, almost like an overnight camp, with cozy cabins and and firepits and rocking chairs with piles of blankets. I'd move there, definitely. <BR/><BR/>Lighting a new tranquility candle I bought tonight just for Ezra, I'll say his name as I light it and will be thinking about you and David. Much love.Paigehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06345329799912987528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-19445645203680949872009-04-05T20:23:00.000-04:002009-04-05T20:23:00.000-04:00Lots of Reiki vibes to you, Sarah. For a long tim...Lots of Reiki vibes to you, Sarah. For a long time now, I've been chatting with various bereaved parent friends about how we need a big piece of land, a commune sanctuary, where families come and are welcome to bring their *whole* selves. In some ways, I've found that space online which is helpful. But I never feel more whole than when at MISS conferences each year where there is a physical wholeness. I can sit by the pool and laugh one moment and then shed tears the next as I talk with another mom or dad -- and no one thinks it is weird in the least. Such a relief space.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, also wanted to add that in my own path, after our Kota died, I found that my rounds of external expression and my rounds of internal BEing were much more pronounced than ever before his death. Both were always equally important, required time, consciously being present, etc., but after his death, the difference between the two states was so much more intense. Now, mostly, I just roll with it. Allow whatever needs to be, to be. And be as gentle with myself as I possibly can.<BR/><BR/>Sending you miracles for all the parts of the path!<BR/>k-Kara Chipoletti Jones of GriefAndCreativity dot comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04110578035201758404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-84670394666057729632009-04-05T20:16:00.000-04:002009-04-05T20:16:00.000-04:00The resignation in your voice today, Sarah, is som...The resignation in your voice today, Sarah, is something that is edging more and more into my thoughts. You wrote it perfectly. Who cares anymore why people don't understand, or why they are jerks? They just are, and we best get on with the rest of it. But can I be enraged at that insensitive, unprepared asshat of a doctor for you? Read an effing file before walking into a room. What is wrong with these doctors, nurses, receptionists? No, really. I want to know.<BR/><BR/>I wonder what a babylost village would be like, though i love the idea of a babylost commune. I almost feel like all of our conversations would be like this: "Hey."<BR/>"Hey"<BR/>"How are you?"<BR/>"You know."<BR/>"Did you ever feel, uh, sort of, uh..."<BR/>"Yeah. Yesterday, and a little this morning."<BR/>"Yeah. Me too."<BR/>"Wanna get a beer?"<BR/>"Yeah."<BR/><BR/>Thinking of Ezra, and you...XOstill life angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15150141781089602529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-7290220376873002842009-04-05T17:57:00.001-04:002009-04-05T17:57:00.001-04:00I get it Sarah, I really do. I feel like I have be...I get it Sarah, I really do. I feel like I have been sad forever, too. That happy life seems so far away now. I don't feel like I can reach out and touch it like I could in those early months. Always here for you.Hope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6696497315612222496.post-69139952100824148782009-04-05T17:57:00.000-04:002009-04-05T17:57:00.000-04:00"Say something stupid or stupidly not say anything..."Say something stupid or stupidly not say anything"- that's perfectly put.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes talking is healing. Sometimes silence is, because it just becomes too exasperating and exhausting to talk. Either way, we're here with you, David, and Ezra.Dani819https://www.blogger.com/profile/00620957484893505246noreply@blogger.com